Fake friends are like snakes, the grand master of disguise. But sooner or later they are bound to run out of luck and get spoted and exterminated period!
Fake friends are everywhere, some only hangout with you to learn the secret to your success and what makes you tick! So they can go back and duplicate it without giving you the credits.
You are in a friendship, and not long you start spilling all your long held secrets and your future plans and ideas, whilst your fake friends on the other hand rarely tell you anything below the surface about their plans. As a matter of fact, they only tell you what they've chosen to tell you, so while you're busy ranting about your secrets and future ideas, they are busy remembering and taking notes of everything you are saying with a plan of executing your ideas before you do! Watch out.
Below are some of the 7 ways to Identify fake friends.
They are more ways to Identify them, but we wanted you to arm yourself with this 7 ways so you can always know what you are dealing with on time.
Now am not saying you can't have friends, but allow the holy Spirit in you guide you. ( Some call it , intuition, guardian angel etc..) matter of fact the holy Spirit is the one who starts exposing them before your very eyes for what they truly are.
So for the benefit of doubt, here some of the 7 ways to identify fake friends in your life.
Happy reading,
1. Fake Friends Compete With You And Even Try To Outdo You.
Yes, I said it. You see, a true friend would never try to compete with you or outshine you. They know your true worth, but are also confident in their own strengths and talents. They are rather comfortable with your many gifts and talents instead of being threatened by them.
2. Fake Friends Talk Behind Your Back
They may eat with you, and still tell the whole street how worst of a cook you are! Sounds familiar right ? Now am not saying you are a bad cook, but you get might point right? Ok.
3. You Tell Them Everything, But You Rarely Know What They Are Up To.
Fake Friends may advice you against an event only to later turn up for that event! And if you get to find out or accidentally run into them. They cook up some lame excuse.
4. Fake Friends Are Only In For What They Can Get From You.
So when the chips are down, you start becoming useless to them and no longer useful.
5. They Really Don't Care About Your Family Or Issues Even Though They Act Like They Do.
6. They Are Mostly Energy Vampires.
Have you ever had someone come around you, only to leave you feeling drained energy wise afterwards? Yes, that's all they ever do, take and take! They where never invested in the relationship from the start.
7. They Never Tell You About Upcoming Or Latest Opportunities.
Their selfishness would not allow them, they rather go it alone and then come back to rub it in your face of how much fun they had, and if you try asking them why you are the last to know? they'd come with some lame excuse and might even blame you outrightly for your complacency! Can you imagine?
Listen these signs are mostly subtle and can almost go unnoticed if you are not observant, hence this article.
In my suggestion, learn to take opinions if you must, without being too attached to the sources. Or you might just be another victim of fake friends. otherwise, use this few guides here as your acid test for the fake friends and the real ones.
" I would rather sit alone, than sit in a room full of vulture
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